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 The Strangers Who Changed My Life

Last Tuesday, I missed my train by exactly two minutes. Standing on the platform watching it disappear, I felt that familiar rush of frustration—the day already derailed before 8 AM.

What I couldn't know then was that this minor inconvenience would lead to one of those rare, perspective-shifting conversations that occasionally punctuate our lives.

The elderly man who sat beside me on the bench looked ordinary enough. Gray jacket, newspaper folded precisely, the kind of person you might sit next to a hundred times without exchanging a word. But when he commented on my obviously harried appearance, something made me respond with more than the usual polite dismissal.

"Missing trains used to feel like catastrophes to me too," he said, smiling slightly. "Until I spent three years waiting for letters that might never arrive."

He had been a foreign correspondent in the 1970s, stationed in places where communication home meant physical letters that traveled uncertain routes. Sometimes news was months old by the time it reached him. Deadlines existed, but so did a different relationship with time.

"We've gained so much with speed," he told me, "but we've lost the art of waiting—and sometimes the unexpected gifts that come with it."

We talked until the next train arrived. I learned about countries I've never visited, a marriage that spanned fifty years, and grandchildren he speaks to daily through technology that would have seemed magical during his reporting days.

I've thought about this conversation all week. About how easily it might never have happened. About how many similar connections I've missed while rushing from one scheduled moment to the next.

The most meaningful parts of life rarely appear in our calendars. They arrive in the spaces between—the missed trains, the detours, the unplanned moments when we're present enough to notice another human being.

I don't know if I'll see that man again. But I'm carrying his stories with me, along with the reminder that sometimes, the best thing that can happen to your day is for it to not go according to plan.